Julia Fidder (Rotterdam, 1997) is a Dutch curator and writer based in Helsinki. As an independent curator and writer she has been exploring the meaning of motherhood, self-care, grief and rituals in today’s world. Her current research project is called ‘Grieve with me’, which is an invitation to come together to grief on our own terms. In an attempt to oppose normative thought caused by capitalist thinking and the privatisation of grief due to neoliberalism, ‘Grieve with’ me explores shared grieving rituals and communal mourning in contemporary times.